The Handoff

I’m going to recap a little here, as this piece will also be featured on the Be Fierce App soon, and I need to set it up a little bit for that. Check out that app though, there’s daily Devotionals, blogs like this one, podcasts, and much more!


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Two of my biggest bible heroes are David and Solomon. This father-son duo accounted for some serious kingdom growth, wisdom, and prosperity. We’ve got the book of Psalms, Proverbs, and Songs of Songs directly from them. Not to mention that the lives they led produced some of the most encouraging and inspiring stories of the whole bible. The men around David were strengthened by his unwavering pursuit of God’s heart. Solomon’s subjects were secure knowing they had a king with direct God-given wisdom. And the entire kingdom was better off for their pursuit. Let’s take a look at their last exchange in 1 Kings Chapter 2:1-12. This is the chapter where David is on his deathbed, and he calls in Solomon to deliver some parting words. This is one of my favorite passages in the entire bible. David gives his son some final words of encouragement, and exhortation. He also lets Solomon know about some unfinished business, and gives him the thumbs up to handle it. David then reminds Solomon of what the stakes are; in this case a massive promise of God is riding on Solomon’s behavior while on the throne….

“…that the Lord may establish his word that he spoke concerning me, saying, ‘If your sons pay close attention to their way, to walk before me in faithfulness with all their heart and with all their soul, you shall not lack a man on the throne of Israel.’” 1 Kings 2:4

DSC06240In other words, “No pressure son, but we’ve got a lot riding on this. This whole thing of being a king is not just about you. Think about what it took for us to get here, and think about what can happen after you’re gone. The Lord has given us a pretty sweet promise here, lets try not to just forget about that in our first trial run here. Now go get ’em.” So what does Solomon go do after that? He immediately takes up the baton and falls right in step with David. He took care of the loose ends right away, with the promise in mind. He asks for wisdom from the Lord, and is given it, plus wealth and honor. It says that everyone in his kingdom lived under their own vine and their own fig tree. I’m not a historian, but I’m pretty sure that means that there was prosperity in all the land, there was no lack. Then Solomon gets to work building this temple that David longed to build, and he completes it. In other words, he is about his father’s business. 

Among other things, I think this highlights a different paradigm for us. In today’s world, especially if you are in America, there’s this individuality that we all seem to crave. Individual expression, being unique, singing our own song, etc. I’m not mad at that. But I think we may have lost some of the corporate perspective (corporate in this sense meaning the group or the whole). There’s a lot of that in the Old Testament, and this is a prime example. The promise that God made to David here was a multi-generational promise. All the way down to Jesus Christ himself, in fact! So what we can take from this is that our actions don’t just effect us. Your faithfulness, righteous acts and life of praise doesn’t just effect you! You’re paving the road for you sons and your daughters. You might be teeing up your great-great-grand kids. And you might be already be walking in the fulfilled promises that the Lord made to those who came before you.

DSC06321This topic always gives me goosebumps. When I think about who came before me, and what they plowed through, the battles the fought and victories they won, I’m just so thankful. My pastor, Steve Gray, has a great story on this. He talks about walking into his first church years ago, and seeing the original old wooden floors there. Then when Revival was poured out on this church and congregation soon after, he often wondered to himself, “who was it that laid on these old wooden floors and prayed for God to move here? And now here it is.” See, that story is part of my legacy, because now I’m a part of that church. I am walking in the move of God that other got on their hands and knees and cried out to God for. Now I think about the prayers of my heart today, and who will be walking in the manifestation of them 100 years from now. Selah….

DSC06273The biggest takeaway I have from studying David and Solomon is that we can be both of them. We can be a David, who’s heart is so on FIRE in the pursuit of God that He uses us to advance the entire Kingdom. And we can also be a Solomon, who doesn’t waste a second after David passes before he begins to reign with justice and truth, and uphold the Kingdom values that his dad fought for. A friend of mine named Paul says we need to walk in the posture of a son, long after we become a father. And how sweet that will be. The Word says a dream fulfilled is a tree of life (Proverbs 13:12)! To that point, when you’re done with this piece here, do yourself a favor and check out 2nd Chronicles 6:12-42. This is where Solomon dedicated the temple that he built to the Lord. Quite a moment, because that’s really what David was fighting for the whole time anyway. But Solomon is the one to finally fulfill that dream. And boy, does God show up big that day! Think about that the next time you have an obstacle to overcome or a challenge to navigate.

It’s my prayer for you today that you get to be as impactful as David, and as faithful as Solomon when it comes to your family and the kingdom. That you would walk with the anointing of a father to establish, and the posture of a son to accept and carry on. Think about those who have been Davids in your own life. How can you be a Solomon to them? Think about the people who are coming after you, whether that’s your own children, or the leaders in your church who are coming on behind you. Do you still have some fight left in you to move the Kingdom forward for them? Men, if you ask God to help you with this I promise he will, just he did for Solomon. Be Fierce today!

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Solomon walks it out…

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Our last conversation touched on David and him as a fighter and an expander of the kingdom. Now lets look at David’s son Solomon, who succeed him as the King of Israel.

In Solomon’s time on the throne, it was considerably easier to make the tough calls to kill the enemies of the throne. You see that in 1 Kings 2. David told Solomon to handle business with enemies of the throne. And when the first chance arises, he starts regulating! Seems to me that when the kingdom was established, the ones who didn’t share the same values, the same loyalty, and had nefarious intentions, stood out like a sore thumb. The kingdom in stability, I think, made it simple for Solomon to carry-out the wisdom that had been bestowed on him. Take a look at what he says here…

“But King Solomon will be blessed, and David’s throne will remain secure before the Lord forever.” – 1 Kings 2:45

Solomon ain’t playing games here! He’s confident in the value that he is to uphold, and confident that he’s doing the right things. You can see that he has a Kingdom perspective. A legacy perceptive. See, he was looking at the whole picture. Where he had come from, what was happening, and what would be in the future. And he was acutely aware and responsible for his own role in all of that!

Copy of DSC06170This is really cool to me, because I personally feel like Solomon all the time. I don’t mean that I have unequaled wisdom and wealth incomparable to anyone in all the earth. What I’m saying is that I know where I’ve come from. I really appreciate the men and women who have come before me and brought the Butler name to this point. Sometime I have to ask myself, how in the world am I so blessed to be where I am, to be when I am, and to be with whom I be. I think about my mentors and the way we even got connected. I think about my church, and the years of plowing before I even got there. The shoulders that make up the floor that I stand on didn’t just get there. There was the sub-floor, the basement, and foundation that was all put together for a purpose, so I wouldn’t have to fight those battles. In fact, the biggest roadblock I see is the one I look at in the mirror. And that guy still makes for a formidable opponent! But my point is, I’ve had Davids in my life that did some fighting before I was around. I’m not sure they could have done a much better job teeing me up, and I don’t want to walk around just wasting that! I’m pretty Solomon would give me an amen right there, because he lived this out!

Someone reading this might be thinking, “yeah but Brendon, you don’t know my situation. You’re standing on the 1st floor, but I’m down here in a hole that my family dug for me the past few generations. This doesn’t apply to me.” Welp, sorry if you thought you were off the hook. You’re not. It’s your choice you do from here. Go look at David’s best friend Jonathon. Jonathan’s dad was Saul, the King of Israel. Saul ended up pretty much going crazy after the Lord left him. But Jonathan kept the faith and stayed true to Yaweh, and to his friend David. He chose to do that, despite his father’s poor choices.

DSC06137Another example would be the classic story of Joseph. This guy had older 11 brothers, and he was constantly telling his Father, Jacob, the bad things his brothers were doing (Genesis 37:2). It goes on to say that Joseph had some dreams that seemed to depict his brothers bowing to him. And then he had a big mouth about it!  So they threw the guy in a pit, and sold him as a slave! Well, if you keep reading, Joseph ends up becoming one of the most powerful men in all of Egypt because he makes a series of choices after that. And he has mercy on his brothers when he has every chance to get revenge on them. So which one do you want to choose to be, Joseph or one of his brothers?

Besides, no one said you couldn’t be a hero if you don’t know any personally.  I personally picked Jesus as my hero 9 years ago, and many others since then. I know Him now, and I know He fought and won on that cross many years ago for me, and He still fights for you and me to this day! (Romans 8:34)  You can still borrow the tools they used to build your own platform, even if your pops wasn’t the King of Israel. And my friend if you find yourself in that position, I’d say you not only need to be Solomon, you also need to be a David. And that is what we will talk about next time. Stay tuned!

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The price we pay…

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A couple years back, when I was reading 1 and 2 Samuel, it occurred to me that the nation of Israel, between David and his son Solomon, went through some pretty serious transformation and growth, complete with all the growing pains. First of all, David had to go through quite a process to even be recognized as the King that he was anointed to be. Then he spends the majority of his time on the throne fighting battles, some of them inside his own family. And on his deathbed, he still has to give Solomon some instruction on how to tie off loose ends. After those are tied off, Solomon himself steps right into the throne with the greatest wisdom that man has ever known, and so goes his kingdom. He eventually falters, just like his dad, when it came to a woman in his life. But I’ll tell ya we wound up with some pretty weighty stuff from that time period. How the book of Psalms and Proverbs? Song of Songs too, but let’s just say I’ve not spent much time in those holy pages of scriptural goodness yet ;). And how about the fact that their family line goes all the way down to Jesus himself!? Sheesh… Plus quite a few lessons on what not to do! But I wanted to talk about how I think each of us actually has the chance to influence The Kingdom in same way they both did. In fact, we are all Davids and Solomons, depending on how you look at it.

Kid-super-hero-520Lets take a look at David first. David’s childhood was spent out in the fields. He was out there preparing for the life he was going to lead. Some people know about the Lion and the Bear that David slayed out in the fields while protecting his sheep (1 Samuel 17:34-35). So when that infamous moment of contention came, and he heard Goliath’s taunts across the valley, he was prepared and had some wins under his belt already, right? The others in the army, including Saul the King, doubted his ability based on their human reasoning, thinking perhaps he was not strong enough, he wasn’t battle tested, he wasn’t used to fighting. Of course, he proved these ideas wrong. But I submit that, in the fields with the sheep, he was also prepared in a different way than anyone thought of. And it has less to do with where he was, and more to do with where he wasn’t….

pexels-photo-93827.jpegDavid wasn’t in the army with the other guys, comparing themselves to each other. He wasn’t around the constant competition with the other soldiers. He wasn’t there looking for plunder after each battle. He wasn’t exposed to the other guys making crude remarks.  Yeah, they were the armies of the living God, but they were still men, right? I don’t think there has been a large group of men assembled in the history of groups of men assembling that didn’t have some crass jokes and trash talk going on. But David wasn’t there. And I think that’s why David reacted the way he did when he heard Goliath defying the Isrealites. His value system was still lined up right, he was after God’s own heart, not after his own glory and benefit. So his reaction is immediate, fierce and righteous!

Maybe part of that stems from the fact that David was the youngest anyway. He was never going to be in line for a big chunk of the inheritance. So from the start he wasn’t clamoring for his part of the pie. He was just content with what the Lord had for him, it seemed. I think this is where you see, in Psalms 27:8 David says “My heart has heard you say ‘Come and talk with me.’ And my heart responds ‘Lord, I am coming.'” He was after God’s heart, and whatever bloodthirsty Philistine or sheep-hungry lion was in the way, would be dealt with accordingly!

3So David’s life was poured out expanding the kingdom. Unifying the tribes. Bringing order where there was none. Destroying the enemies of the living God. People looked to him for hope and to lead them in battle, and to handle matters of the kingdom. But really they looked for him to follow Yaweh, which he did. And I think that is an amazing feat, to maintain that pure hunger despite being lifted up to the throne that way. If he had only been thinking about his time on the throne, it may not have been the case. See, I think David knew a little something about Legacy. I think he knew something about posterity, and who would come after him. He wasn’t just thinking about his current situation, he was conscious of the fact that the kingdom would continue on after he was gone. And as we will talk about later in the second chapter, he was conscious of the specific Promise that God had made him about Legacy. So he was willing to do what he needed to do, and he didn’t want to hold back because of the cost to himself. He even went out of his way to pay when things were offered to him because of the throne he sat on….

“…I insist on paying the full price. I will not take for the Lord what is yours, or sacrifice a burnt offering that costs me nothing.” – 1 Chronicles 21:24

You will leave a legacy whether you want to or not, that’s not the question. My question today is, are you fighting for your Legacy to be fruitful the way David did? Are you willing to pay full price for things of God to happen in your life? As we will see in the next chapters of this series, paying full price in your life can yield a result that continues producing positive things for generations to come. It doesn’t really matter what the story was before you. You can establish a new history, a new story for your family, your church, and the Church at large. I myself come from a family where we really didn’t talk about God much around the house. So part of what I am fighting for daily is to establish a new trajectory for our family in God. And I want to pay full price for that to be established. What price will you pay?

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The Hero You Are Today…

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Alright guys, in this last piece about heroes, I’d like to highlight a few things about Unlikely Heroes. We’ve already talked about how most if not all of us have desired to be the hero in one way or another. But today I want to challenge that paradigm a little. I want to ask, who says you’re not one right now? In fact, I would venture to say you’re probably already a hero in very real way to someone, without even knowing it.  


“There are people to your left and to your right who look up to you so much, and you have no idea!” – Janek Pfeifer


Janek is one of my mentors, and is famous for these words. I’ve found they absolutely ring true. My older sister Mallory is such a person for me. You see, we are very different in our approaches to life, and some of the things we value. We were typical brother and sister growing up; best friends in one moment and fighting the next. But once in college, when we started branching out and defining our own values, our lives took very Untitled Designdifferent paths. And in those early years of adulthood, I was sometimes frustrated with her choices.  Many times I would think about her from my own perspective, and be critical of her life, based on what I was trying to do with my own. 

Mallory actually went through a period of depression when she was in high school/college. I was 3 years younger at the time (I’m actually still 3 years younger, by the way, cuz that’s how that works), and as a high school kid, I wasn’t really in tune with what was going on. But I just knew that at some point she was no longer battling that depression, and she had hope, joy and was loving her life. She had creative pursuits and people around her that she loved. I asked her about this years later, when we were both in our late 20’s. Her response completely changed my view of her…


“…I woke up one day and realized that my life was totally passing me by. And I didn’t want to live like that anymore. So I said ‘F*** that!’ and I changed everything!”


My sister became a hero to me in that moment. She’s probably the last person I would have expected to draw inspiration from, but today she’s actually one of the most inspiring people I know. And even though we aren’t pursuing the same things, or even the same path in life, I can still look at her and draw inspiration when I start to throw a pity party for myself about this or that. I’m like, what would Mallory say here?? Oh yeah!

Think about that the next time you have to make a character decision. The next time no one is watching, and you can choose between the easy way or the right way. Or the next time you do something so small that it seems like it won’t matter….


See, there might be a kid who lives around the corner from you who thinks you’re the bee’s knees because his parents ignore him, but you remember his name when you walk by. And you’re just busy thinking about what you need to get done that day….

Maybe there’s a brother in your church who has seen you worshiping with your kids and aspires to be a father like you someday. He might not know that you were just hoping you were doing something right, and weren’t sure if your kids would appreciate it at all….

Maybe there’s a guy who’s heard how dedicated you are to The Word, and hope he can improve in that area someday….

Perhaps there’s a person who’s heard how well you treated your employees during a crisis, and they desire to be that fair and generous. And you were just happy to survive the crisis…


So I have a challenge for you today. Think of someone that you look up to, or who inspires you. Find them and tell them about why you feel that way. They are probably not expecting it, and I guarantee it’ll make them feel like a million bucks!

Untitled Design (1)The other part of this is that, once you realize you are a hero, I think your personal standards of integrity have to go up. Your awareness of character has to be increased. The apostle Paul said to his protege Timothy “…be prepared in season and out of season…” – 2 Timothy 4:2. I think this puts a positive pressure on you and I to be about it all the time. Man, I don’t want some other guy to have an excuse to falter because I chose the easy route when I thought no one would notice! No thanks! I’d venture to say that if you’ve connected with any of this, you probably feel the same way.

Remember, you might be a hero to someone right now, and you don’t even know they are watching. Be a hero, starting right where you’re at.

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The Truth about Heroes

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Now while we are looking at the heroes in our midst, let’s keep in mind that we have no idea what they have been through or are currently going through. Most guys are always questioning themselves on a day to day basis anyway. Think about the example of Gideon in the book of Judges. Let’s look at this exchange between Gideon and the Lord in Judges 6:14-15

“The Lord turned to him and said, “Go in the strength you have and save Israel out of Midian’s hand. Am I not sending you?”

“Pardon me, my lord,” Gideon replied, “but how can I save Israel? My clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my family.”

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Read the chapter and you’ll see Gideon using a fleece to see God in action.

So Gideon’s 1st reaction is to hesitate. Throughout the chapter he does several things essentially asking God to prove himself faithful. (Side note, I bet Gideon’s faith was really built after these incidents, which prepared him to act in faith for what was to come. But that’s a whole different blog post…). So we know he didn’t just jump right into the role of hero that God had called him into. He was hesitant, uncertain, and probably downright scared. But he ended up doing it anyway. You’ll also notice that in the next chapter when he starts making big faith moves according to God’s instructions, and wins the battle in a miraculous way, it says NOTHING about any hesitation or uncertainty.

I’ve heard a saying that you don’t want to get too close to your heroes, because they’ll always let you down. Meaning, if you get close to them, you will see their flaws, and see how real they are. That they are actually just like you, and thus no longer heroes. And from the world’s perspective that’s true. Andy Mineo actually just put out a song about this, saying “All of my heroes are frauds, just like me.” A lot of people put on a front and act like Superman, but then they cover up the parts that aren’t so Super. But to me, that’s actually really encouraging. When I think about heroes in the faith, King David for example, I understand that they were men just like me, had flaws just like me, made mistakes, hurt people, missed the mark just like me. And God still used them mightily!


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Another thing about Gideon. The point of this particular post is to illustrate the fact that real people who turn out to to be heroes didn’t start that way. Gideon’s first response to the Lord, before questioning his own credentials, was actually to question the Lord himself! Probably not a good idea, dude. He’s like, God we heard all these stories about where you’ve delivered us; why are we still here? To be fair, he had only heard the stories, he didn’t see the acts of the Lord happen. So maybe Gideon’s initial lack of faith was just from that fact, he had not yet seen the Lord in action.

In any case, you would think it would have been that one guy who had kept the faith all those years. Kinda like the kid you know who everyone thought was kinda weird in high school because he went to church on Friday instead heading to the party to drink. If your’e that kid, good on ya! I was totally at the party judging you while I sipped out of my Solo cup, by the way. But it wasn’t that guy, it was the guy who God had to help build up some confidence and faith. It was last guy anyone would have picked to do the Lord’s work.

Men, that should give you hope! Hope because you can be a hero in the faith! Doesn’t matter what kind of stature you have or where you once thought your life was headed. The heroes we look to had the same fears, doubts, and mistakes in their past. But they still stepped out. When you hear that call, you can bet God will follow through on what He says and use you to do great things in the kingdom!

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“We need a heeero….”

 

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Alright, this one’s for the fellas! Actually, it applies to everyone, but there’s just a few things that I know are inherent to a man’s heart that I’m gonna touch on here. And besides, I can only speak from my personal experience which has been 100% from the male perspective. In a previous post I touched some of my own heroes like King David, and how their flaws make it possible for us to relate. I figured I’d expand on that topic of heroes. Seems to me that every kind of culture has their own version of a hero. But the things that make a hero aren’t always what we expect…

If you’re wondering, the title is indeed a reference to that Skillet song. But it’s a true thing. Heroes have been involved in pretty much every society that we have record of. Today, people might look at a famous athlete, a business guru, a pastor, a musician, or a family member as heroes. You might have even looked up to someone who is close to you and never told them. As men of God, you’ve got to have people that you look to in times of trial. It actually builds your faith to hear examples of people who have done great things in spite of fear, doubt, or overwhelming circumstances. But this piece isn’t about always looking at someone else saying “look how cool they are.” If you’re going to be a fierce man of God, you’re going to finally BE the hero!

hero-silhouette-8In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul knows what real heroes are all about, and explains it well in the book of Hebrews. Chapter 10:24 says “let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” In the next chapter he fires off a huge list of people that were considered heroes to his audience. Then in Chapter 12, he talks about how we should be inspired by these heroes to decide to “set aside everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.” Paul points us to Jesus and adds him to the top of that list of heroes.

My personal definition of a hero is someone who acts in accordance with their values in all circumstances; and most importantly they do it when it would be easier or safer to compromise.

Heroes challenge your own level of faith and commitment. Heroes make you want to be better. They show that what you thought was surely impossible might actually be within your grasp. They cause you to search your own soul and desire to experience the depth of conviction they’ve displayed. Heroes usually don’t have to say much, they just live it. They embody their message, their values, and their convictions. Many times they do this for years without anyone noticing. But they become a hero when circumstances come about that cause most people to falter, but they hold fast. That’s a hero. 

I bet right now you are thinking of people who have been heroes in your own life. But what about YOU? I KNOW for a fact you’ve imagined yourself as a hero at some point. It’s pretty much just part of being a guy. Right, we all do that! I always imagine a scene Kid-super-hero-520where some crazy guy bursts into my church to try to hurt people. He’s got wild hair and wilder eyes, carrying some kind of weapon. The look on his face says he ain’t here to play nice. Somehow he makes it past the security team and sprints for the front row with the worst of intentions. But in that scene, I’m in exactly the right place at exactly the right time to save the day with an epic body slam or a well-placed pistol round. And of course, the baddest girl I know is standing right there to see it. And I’m the hero….Don’t act like you haven’t had a similar episode play in your head. Just go look at any group of young boys playing around in the backyard and it won’t take long for this theme to show up in their game of good guys vs bad guys. 

We’re designed to come through in the clutch, fellas, even if we don’t feel like we are. And we can! But I’d like to unpack a few things about being a hero that we might not think about. I’ll be doing that over the next few weeks, and would love for you to come along with me….

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The least of these…

DSC06169I just finished reading a book about Eternity that really changed my perspective on life. Among other things, it talked about how the way you spend eternity will depend on how you conduct your life here on Earth, after salvation. At a certain part of the book, it references Matthew 25:40…


“Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.”

When I read this, I immediately thought of a man in Kansas City who I’ve become acquainted with whose name is AJ. He is currently homeless and has been for at least a few years now. He’s been in prison at least once before that I know of. I’ve had normal conversations with A.J. many times, and he communicates clearly, looks you in the eye, has all his teeth, and has no hands_0physical ailments that are obvious. From all outward appearances, he shouldn’t be homeless. But he is not a pleasant guy, I’ll put it that way. You see, many times I see a homeless person who is clearly struggling with some issues that make it challenging for them to take care of themselves. Other times perhaps they’ve got some mental/spiritual battles to fight. I have sympathy there for them. Sometimes they are self-imposed challenges with substance abuse or what-have-you. But what AJ struggles with is a serious case of BAD-ITUDE! His attitude is generally that everybody owes him something, and he’s mad at you and me and everyone, all of the time. No need for seasoning, he’s already salty. Even though he’s clearly fully capable of producing for himself, he does not. And then he turns around and expects you and I to do that for him. I ain’t about that type of life, so in the past I’ve been very intentional about NOT giving him a darn thing. Which does not make him like me any better, ha! But when the Lord hit me with that verse I couldn’t ignore it. I knew my heart was a maybe little off the mark, and that the description I just gave might not be the full story….
The day that all this was hitting me, I also picked up a devotional that I read regularly. Some people reading this are familiar with the Be Fierce ministry out of Nashville, TN. DSC06252They have daily devotionals that are pushed out via their app, to which I’ve had the honor of contributing in the past. Themed, Fierce Generosity, the challenge that day was to give something to someone. I was like “Okay, Lord, I hear ya.” I had a $5 bill on me, and I went to where I know AJ usually is. Sure enough, he ambled into the Starbucks about 10 minutes after I got there. Gave him the $5 and prayed, “Lord, I did it. Not sure where this is going but I was obedient to you.”
Came to me later that maybe AJ was the least of these, not because of his societal position, or what he had or hadn’t done in life,  but because I deemed him to be the least. That was my label I put on him, even if I didn’t know. Kinda reminded me to see him as God sees him, despite what my eyes see and my brain perceives. Being generous helped me have God’s perspective when I would normally have not. Ok, cool.
This was in early March. I thought that was the end of it, but here I am on a snowy day in April (yes you read that correctly), and God revealed some more things on this topic to me. I was passing a homeless guy on the corner holding a sign. And I began to think more about that verse, the least of these. Many people would consider that to be who has the least things, the least amount of dollars, least enriching relationships, the least material possessions. Which makes sense. Material possessions aren’t bad things. I’d personally like to have more than enough, instead of less than enough. But then I was thinking about the differences between people who cannot provide for themselves and those who choose not to, like AJ. Why would someone choose not provide for themselves and handle even the basics of obtaining means for water, food, and shelter? Not even to thrive yet, but just the common things to survive. Where’s the disconnect?
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They would choose not to because they don’t know their identity. They dont know that they can have these things. If you have no clue who you are, how you are and most importantly, why you are, how the heck are you supposed to operate in any kind of productive manner? The who, how and why brings a sense of self-worth, a healthy dignity that says this ain’t right, let me get myself off these streets. So, in the case of AJ, homie doesn’t know who he is! Or in other cases (depression, anxiety and schizophrenia come to mind) something is preventing them from knowing who they are! That’s the battle for them.

 

2 Corinthians 10 talks about this quite a bit. Look at verse 5. “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” He goes on to explain a few things about why he ministers the way he does, essentially saying I’m bold and confident because I know who I am in Christ, and I ain’t apologizing for it! 

So, the least of these could be the one with the least revelation or understanding of his/her identity.


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Now, that totally flips my definition around. Much less to do with material things, 1hd7rtdollars, relationships. All about identity. So how about the guy who drives by AJ on the street in his luxury clothes in a luxury Rolls, to a house full of stuff and a heart full of nothing.  He might seem to have it all but has just been following someone else’s plan. He might be trying to find his identity in that stuff, but its not working!. He might be just as miserable driving over the bridge as the guy who’s living underneath it! He might be screaming on the inside, quietly desperate because everything he has is not filling the void. Both are the least, because neither knows his own who, how, and why! The least of these…


A couple disclaimers here. The people I know who have their identity really figured out never seem to lack those basics, and in many cases have abundance in their lives materially. They didn’t pursue the stuff, they just went after their own identity and the stuff came along with that. So the stuff is an indication of something but you probably don’t know of what till you look in their eyes and heart and see if they know who they are. Just wanted to clarify my position on that.
Also, if anyone has some other awesome teaching or background on that verse, holler at me! I’d love to hear someone else’s story on this. This same verse could speak something else to you. I didn’t even really dig into it when it comes to Jesus saying my brothers and sisters. We could go a whole other direction when it comes to who Jesus is talking about. In fact, I’ve kinda got 2 definitions here anyway. I don’t think they conflict, though. This is just how it came to me. But that’s the cool thing about The Word, it never stops meaning things. This Well never runs dry, ya’ll!
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3 Lessons in 90 days of not dating…

Copy of DSC06279A little throwback action here today. This was actually my first ever attempt at some original writing. It came on the heels of a pretty interesting experience I put myself through last spring. I decided to go on a 90 day dating “fast.” And not because I was dating so much that I needed a fast, as one person speculated jokingly. In fact I didn’t really call it a fast at the beginning. I just prayed for wisdom on how long of a break I should take, and I heard 90 days. You see, I had just ended a short relationship, and thought it might be wise to hit “reset” on my heart. Turned out to be one of the best things I have ever done. I’m by no means a “relationship blogger” but I did think this would have some value for someone out there.

I’m publishing this one year after I wrote it! Hope you enjoy…



April 16th, 2017

3 Lessons in 90 Days

So I’ve recently been challenged by more than a few people to pursue and develop something that I’ve always been good at; writing. Always had a knack for it, and every once in a while I had the chance to put together something that really helped someone. But I was never intentional with developing the talent into true creative expression. My first thought was, what am I going to write about? Well, I’ve recently had an experience that had a positive impact on almost every area of my life. Normally I don’t just put my life out there, because I’d rather not be associated with the masses who express every thought that comes across their mind. But, I have learned a few things that I think can add value to people. So, I’m just going to be obedient and take the first step. So if only 2 people read this, I’ll know it was you, Mom and Dad. Thanks, fam…  

On January 15th of (2017), I decided to go on a 90 Day dating fast. Various things led to that decision, but it turned out to be one of the best things I have ever done. I learned a lot about myself, and thus the way I relate to others has changed.

  1.   Knowing myself. The first 2 months was where most of the learning happened. I found that after a short while I was no longer trying to “measureDSC06273.jpg up,” to be something for someone else. Because through that time, I was pressing into my Father in Heaven. I found that I was already accepted by Him, and here I was trying to earn something that I already had, from people who couldn’t give it anyway. Have you ever thought, “Man, when I just accomplish this, or when I get rid of that character flaw, or have this skill set learned, then I’ll be good. I’ll be all set at that point…” I did that all the time. It held me back from advancing for years. I learned that really, I’m exactly where I am today and can’t change what did or didn’t happen in the past. God looks at me and sees Jesus. So I’m good there. Such peace came from that. That’s the first lesson I learned.

  2.   Understanding others. Now, here’s where it gets interesting. This sense of acceptance began to clear the lens through which I viewed other people, also. Because I was constantly striving, I had a tendency to look at others assuming they were the same way. But now, instead of immediately looking for something about someone that they should change, I just looked at them and accepted them where they were, without trying to think of something they could improve. I was no longer evaluating them based on what I thought they should be. That also meant I was no longer comparing one person to another. I don’t know how many relationships in my life were strained or ruined because of this. But now I was able to see in people what God says about them, not what the world has done to them. Even if they don’t know the difference, I do.

  3.   Being Present. The 3rd lesson was to be more present in the moment. This is really an extension of lesson #1, but I thought it was pertinent enough that it deserved its own number. When I was not concerned about who I was not and had settled who I was and am, I found I could notice things that were beautiful, wonderful, and fantastic right now. I encountered moments that didn’t need to be DSC06137evaluated, quantified, or systematized. A little thing called spontaneity began to return to my life. And, as my friend Brandi will tell you, it was sorely needed! During this time I also began to connect with a group of young pastors and ministers, ALL of whom are creative types. It started to rub off on me. And I had the realization that by developing creative expression, we can open up creative pursuits. That’s a whole dimension of life in which I am just now testing (you’re reading this, my first attempt!). Someone said your vibe attracts your tribe. Well, I can’t wait to see the tribe of life-loving people I vibe with.

So those are my top 3 takeaways from this experience. There were a few other stories I could tell, but you’ve got this gist of it (ask me if you’re really curious). Some people asked me if it was hard. And I’ll tell ya, there was about a 3 week window towards the end that was pretty interesting, because I had learned the lessons already, but still had a significant chunk of time left. That final week, though, smooth sailing and a calm confidence looking ahead. As I am finishing this, it’s April 16, 2017, the first day back in the game. It also happens to be Resurrection Sunday. Easter. The Lord is Risen. Talk about timing! 😉

Perhaps you have had a similar experience? I’d love to hear about it!!!



There you go! One thing to note about that experience that I think is really important happened right at the start. When I committed to the 90 days, I immediately felt God smile broadly on that. There was a very discernible pat on my spiritual back, if you will. Like he was saying, “That’s my boy!” I treasure that moment, by the way, because there’s been waaaay more moments that I gave God good reason to shake His head in disapproval! But I think, more than any kind of lesson or takeaway, God was just pleased with my obedience. I listened to Him and actually did what he said. Lord, that we could all be that way every time!

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Praise and Arrows…

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Short post here! I’ve got lots of topics in the works about various things, but I wanted to get this one finished and pushed out. Lighter subject, no real teaching here.

One of the cool things about this whole writing thing is its pretty introspective. Opens you up to you, and confirms things that you suspected, or makes you look at things you’ve never taken time to consider. I can look at pieces I’ve done over the last couple years and find the common thread in them all. Things I’ve always known, but it’s been fun seeing it expressed and articulated in different ways. My consistent theme tends to be something about living your life in such a way that it praises God, that it honors him in the big things and in the small things. I always come back to it And trust me, I’m the first one to tell me if I’m not living that out.

Lion of WarA lot of my inspiration for this topic comes from a series of novels that are written around the story of King David and his Mighty Men. It’s technically a fictional novel but it follows with scriptures about these warriors and their exploits. The books just expands the scriptures and takes the creative liberty to fill in the story with their personalities, relationships with each other, their flaws as men, etc. The series is called the Lion of War Series, by a guy named Cliff Graham. I highly recommend picking these books up, especially if you’re a guy. Very well written and lots of bloody battles, so the pure entertainment value is top notch. On top of that, if you also care about scripture, 1st and 2nd Samuel will come alive, and I promise you’ll have much a deeper perspective of the stuff that went down. I read 1st and 2nd Samuel before I read these fictional books, which helped me keep the main facts straight and appreciate the creative input.

These books also brought into perspective the character of the people in the stories. I often look at my heroes in the bible and find them to be extraordinary. When you look back at their lives, the things they were able to accomplish, and battles they won and  It can be easy to put them on a pedestal and make them larger than life. We’re just amazed at the results of their lives, because in the scriptures it doesn’t always break down the back story. Now, in the world, its said that you never want to meet your heroes, because you find out that they are just like you, imperfect. They aren’t really that special which, in the world’s eyes, means they cease to be heroes. But in the Kingdom of God, when I realized my heroes were just normal dudes like me, it actually  empowered me! I thought, “Man, if these guys can rise up and make history, so can I!”

See, King David was just a man. It’s not like he had some supernatural abilities, or was born with a triple portion of chutzpah. He did have a strong anointing, no doubt. But that didn’t make him perfect or impervious to failure. Just meant that God had a plan for him and was with him. He still dealt with all the same things we deal with here today, lust of DavidHarp8the flesh, lust of the eyes, and pride of life. I think we can know this much more vividly with David than with most people recorded in the Bible because of all the Psalms he recorded. When I first started reading the bible, and Psalms specifically, I remember thinking “Wow this Psalm is the exact cry of my heart! These are the words I’ve been looking for to express myself and my heart for God, but also my frustrations, fears and failures.” That’s because David already walked this path! The guy had been there, done that! Of course, he lived in the Old Testament times, and the faith walk was a little different than it is now. But you understand what I mean.

One of the things that stuck out to me from the Lion of War books is the call and response David has with his army. He would say, “Praise to our God!” and they would respond “Arrows to our Enemies!” Many times, they would shorten it and say to each other “Praise and arrows!” Kinda like if I’m in a group of Kansas Jayhawk fans, and I leave and say, “OK guys, I’m out. Rock Chalk!” (No idea what that actually means, but my dad works for the University of Kansas, so I’m a fan by default). And if you look at- David’s life, his is all about bringing praise to God and taking the arrows to his enemies. His hearts desire was to bring honor to God through everything he did. Every battle he fought, every enemy he slayed or spared, every song he sang was done with that in mind. I know he also committed some pretty grievous acts, adultery among them. But his heart always brought him back God. And that was his real weapon, not his sword or his sling.


You see, my friends, Praise to God is Arrows to the enemy. Praise is a weapon.


Praise can be a weapon aimed right at the heart of the enemy. Because it gives glory and honor to the One who deserves it all. You see, Satan became the enemy in the first place because he wanted that glory and honor for himself. So just imagine how salty he is when we stand there and choose to honor God instead of ourselves or him. Especially when it would be more natural or easier to choose the other option. I could talk about that all day but you understand the concept.

I liked the imagery of Praise and Arrows, and the meaning, so much that I thought it would be cool to get it tattooed somehow. But I couldn’t think of an image that would properly convey it. Then I saw that someone had compiled some songs in anticipation of Praise and arrowsLion of War becoming a film. On the cover was a bow and arrow, except the bow was comprised of angel wings. I saw it and thought, that’s it! It looked cool, yeah, but the the meaning behind praise and arrows is what I want my story to be. The kind of stuff I want on my tombstone. After about 3 years of wanting it done, I finally pulled the trigger in November 2017. I had an artist make a similar image for me, and put it on my back. Not gonna go back and forth about tattoos here in this piece, there’s a lot of opinions out there. I went ahead and avoided the lower back region ;). Got it on the back of my right shoulder, pictured here. Might be my last, might be the first of many, we shall see!

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The arrow looks crooked because of the angle of the picture, its actually straight, I promise.

Distinctly…

DSC06085Fired up about this little nugget that I picked up on a few days back. Came to me in 3 different parts. Typically when I get something like this, I’ll get just the main points, but then have to dig deeper to fill in the details. Or in this case, the different pieces were already there, but the connection between them was not obvious. I feel like that’s a way to describe the difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge is just having the information. Wisdom is understanding how the information applies and relates to other information.That’s part of the process though, digging through it all until you find the connections. When I added up the pieces here, it turned out to be a really good way to get rid of this little thing called comparison. But let me walk you through this the same way I received it.

The first thing is that God knows us all deeply, personally, and intimately. That’s pretty foundational to my faith, but here’s a few verses that make this clear…

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“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, before you were born I set you apart…” Jeremiah 1:5

“Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” Luke 12:7

“My heart has heard you say, ‘Come and talk with me.’ And my heart responds, ‘Lord I am coming.'” Psalm 27:8 (NLT)


All those are indicative of the fact that we are to have a personal, intimate relationship with the Father. That last one has been one of my favorites for a few months now, because I think it shows the fact that, not only does the Father desire a relationship, but also that we were originally designed for relationship. We are designed to seek it out, so the desire is within us also. Of course, many of us have tried to fill that desire with other things, or perhaps numbed it with things of the world, but His original intent was for us to be in a close relationship with Him. Like I said, pretty basic, although that doesn’t mean that its not important or powerful to know that.

The second thing came from understanding that each of us will face unique trials,tests, and temptations. No person’s walk is the same as another. Each person will have his or her own experiences and challenges. And withstanding the trials honorskronk_angel.jpg God! The “test” or temptation is speaks of is always about who your heart is loyal to, no matter what the circumstances of the temptation look like. Will you choose to honor Him or gratify your flesh? That’s what temptation is about, I believe. That means when the choice is made to Honor him, it’s an act of praise. You’ve chosen to reflect Him well here on earth when you had the option not to. Now, combine that with the first point, and this led to the real light bulb.

If each of us has our own personal relationship with the Father, and we withstand the unique trials and testing with perseverance, then the STORY of VICTORY that we write BACK TO God will be just as unique, just as personal, and just as intimate. So giving-handswhatever victory looks like in your life, it’s your very own handcrafted gift to God. You can say, “Look, God, I had this heart that was broken and flawed, and all I could do was choose to love you through the ups and downs that I went through. From that, I made you this beautiful story that praises you, in a way that no one else’s story can. Here you go. Love, Me.” That’ll change your outlook on trials and temptations! Instead of thinking, “man I wish this was easier, I wish this wasn’t happening,” we could think “Sweet, I’m about to win back the Glory of God right here! I’m about to write a new part of the story!”

I think that’s quite a notion to wrap your mind and heart around. And it’s not about the story that’s completed fully at the end of the race, it’s not a “finish line” thing. It’s a here and now, every day, pushing forward in perseverance thing. It’s a condition of your heart thing. It’s a It is Well With My Soul even though the circumstances look kinda shitty thing. So you can sing that song in the chair you’re sitting in right now! What a way to get rid of stress and pressure. See, I’m one of these darned millennial things that people keep talking about, and I tend to want things done right now. Like, I didn’t take over the world today,whats wrong with me?

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Stay in your lane…

I try to surround myself with people who have what I want or are pursuing what I’m pursuing. Its help fuel me to be around other people who are dreamers and doers. But that can get me a little off track if I don’t stay in my lane. When I start pursing someone else’s story because of what it looks like at the present moment, I’m very quickly derailed. Anxiety and negative self-talk are the symptoms, and in my opinion comparison is the ailment. So much peace and joy are there when you just focus on your own story, and dial in on writing the chapter you’re currently in, because you already know the “end” of the story. (Unless you’re reading this and you don’t know about the end with certainty. If that’s the case case I would encourage you to reach out to me. Let’s have a conversation about that.) Paul talks about this in Philippians 2:17…. 


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“But I will rejoice even if I lose my life, pouring it out like a liquid offering to God, just like your faithful service is an offering to God. And I want all of you to share that joy.” (NLT)


This should really eliminate any kind of negative comparison of ourselves to other people. If the point is to write a song of praise back to God, using the circumstances, resources, and people we are given, there’s really no reason to be looking at someone else’s life and wising we could write the same song. That’s like if you had a perfectly good saxophone in your hands, but you heard an upright bass and wished your sax made the same sound. That doesn’t even make sense. You might be able to learn from the other musician’s mastery of the instrument, and aspire to master yours to that level. That’s a healthy admiration for skill and talent. But the actual sound will be distinctly different.

The life you can build to honor God will be distinctly your also. Distinctly glorious,  distinctly beautiful, and distinctly victorious. So it’s time to own that and get to building! I’m putting this one in my heart pocket and carryin’ it around with me everywhere…

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